I learned something amazing today while writing my motivation profile paper for psychology. I learned that almost everything I am and everything that I have strove to be has stemmed from my siblings. They are my basis for almost all that I do. Since I was little I have wanted to impress them and be like them and hang out with them and laugh with them. As I grew into adolescence I learned that there were indeed some things that I did not want to do that they had done in their lives. Without their mistakes, I do not know where I would be because I am slightly head strong and I like to figure things out for myself. I do not like it when people tell me not to do things or not to try things, but my siblings choices have helped me to stay away from some potentially life-threatening things. Hopefully all these things are only to make us all stronger.
Right now in my life there is this level of acceptance that I exhibit. I have low tolerance for judgment. Although I cannot fully avoid placing judgment on people, I feel that because my siblings have had tough situations to live through, that I have greater understanding of others and that maybe, and probably, others have had something horrible happen to them to make them act or look or speak in a certain way.
The most important thing that my siblings have taught me is true, pure, unconditional love and kindness. I do not know anyone who I could rely on more than my siblings and my parents. They are people that I would spend all of my time with and never get tired of. They are my best friends.
Lucky me...I get to spend eternity with them:)
-Connie

You are so blessed to have such a great family and yes your siblings have been through a lot they are still such great people! And will someday over come it all. I remember you telling me when you were little that your siblings were like the show "what not to wear" except they are the version of "what not to do". You do such a great job at taking their positive behaviors/traits and using those in your life to make you a better person! You are so great connie and have such an awesome spirit! Love you lots
ReplyDelete